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theambitiouswoman:

Working on Yourself Step 1.

Working on yourself means facing your own problems instead of pretending they don’t exist, identifying with them, or making excuses for bad things you do. It’s about understanding what you need to change and taking responsibility for your actions and feelings, acknowledging that you need to shift your belief system instead of clinging to it. This helps you become a better person by fixing the things that aren’t good for you or others. It’s like taking steps to grow and improve as a person.

This is how you start:

Face Your Problems: Instead of pretending your problems don’t exist or pushing them away, you deal with them directly. This means being aware of your thoughts and feelings and trying to understand them in a helpful way.

Don’t Letting Problems Define You: You know that your problems don’t make up your whole identity. They’re things you can work on and change, but they’re not all that you are.

Being Open, Not Defensive: If someone points out things you’re doing wrong, you don’t get upset or defensive. Instead, you listen and try to learn from their feedback.

Changing Your Bad Habits: You actively try to recognize and change behaviors that are harmful to you or others. This might mean getting help, thinking about your actions, and trying hard to do better things instead.

Getting Better as a Person: The main aim is to improve and become a better version of yourself. This involves making good changes, learning new things, and building healthier habits over time.

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metamorphesque:
“ — Vladimir Nabokov, Letters to Véra
“[I love you. Infinitely and inexpressibly. I’ve woken up in the middle of the night and here I am writing this. My love, my happiness.]
” ”

metamorphesque:

Vladimir Nabokov, Letters to Véra 

[I love you. Infinitely and inexpressibly. I’ve woken up in the middle of the night and here I am writing this. My love, my happiness.]

(via localbookshop)

  • 7th August
    2023
  • 07
metamorphesque:
“ — Vladimir Nabokov, Letters to Véra
“[I love you. Infinitely and inexpressibly. I’ve woken up in the middle of the night and here I am writing this. My love, my happiness.]
” ”

metamorphesque:

Vladimir Nabokov, Letters to Véra 

[I love you. Infinitely and inexpressibly. I’ve woken up in the middle of the night and here I am writing this. My love, my happiness.]

(via localbookshop)

  • 7th August
    2023
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